Forget how people tend to stare at their phones or get distracted easily. If you show a disregard for others’ feelings or basic courtesy, women will quickly pick up on it and think you’re a loose cannon.
What good is a handshake if your hands seem like you’ve been digging through garbage? Otherwise – you can come off as “uneducated” or “not raised properly” (making your parents look bad). It’s another major turn-off caused by a lack of natural oil (which keeps the skin of your hands supple).
But you’ll also have to do some trial and error and read the reviews.
But this time – you don’t use products to deal with your voice and language. Only do it to stress something positive like “F—ing awesome! Find books that go deep into enriching topics (not just entertain you) – and help you grow as a person.
You’re aiming to show women you’re relatable, that you can communicate without any extreme “barriers.” So your accent, the tone of your voice, and whether you say “no” or “no thank you” to reject an offer – all those factors come into play.
Combine that smile with proper eye contact and a confident posture – and you’re already on a roll when it comes to impressing her. Your smile can also be a hindrance IF the teeth are noticeably dirty. And women are particularly drawn to a very masculine silhouette – with a built-up chest, a lean torso, and strong shoulders.
That entails wearing the right cut of a suit jacket.
Now chances are you’re not going to be on that show.
But it’s the same principle in real life: if you don’t greet a woman properly for the first time, you’ve already dug yourself a hole.You want her to believe you’re invested in courting her (not just there for TV exposure).Those few seconds of acknowledging her presence can mean the difference between staying or being sent home first.So apply a good amount of hand lotion or cream every now and then. Do NOT clench your fist in front of a woman (as if you’re about to punch someone)!You’re probably stronger than her – so that just makes you appear more intimidating.Avoid any gestures that can catch a pretty lady off guard (since she’s still getting to know you).