If you don’t feel good about yourself, you will never truly believe that someone else can love you and you will constantly be on the lookout for the other shoe to drop, for the guy you care about to leave, thus validating the fact that you are unworthy of love.
Poor self-worth is what traps us in bad relationships, what sabotages new relationships, and what causes us to feel so devastated and broken when a relationship ends.
People with high self-esteem believe they are worthy of love and don’t question how someone feels about them.
This obviously does not do much to help one’s sense of autonomy, which is also a key element of healthy self-esteem. Confident women don’t show off or talk themselves up.
Confident people don’t need to tell the world how great they are.
Self-esteem doesn’t come from blowing kisses to your reflection in the mirror or repeating “I love myself” over and over.
It takes time and it takes work and it isn’t always easy.
She won’t abandon important parts of herself or her life for the sake of the relationship and if a guy wants something else or something more than she’s willing to give, she’ll leave. Confident women trust themselves and the decisions they make.
A key component of having high self-esteem is trusting yourself to make the right choices while also realizing you are well equipped to cope should things go awry.Confident women don’t take it personally when a guy doesn’t want a romantic relationship.They realize that it must not be the right match and they move on, with their sense of self firmly intact.People with low self-esteem don’t trust their judgment, don’t trust their gut instincts, and are afraid of being wrong.As a result, they either live their lives in a constant state of anxiety, or they look to others to guide them along the right path.Confident people don’t abandon parts of themselves in order to have a relationship.