5) No impersonating other members Changing your chat name or creating an account to impersonate other members is considered a form of harassment and is prohibited.I was a latecomer to counselling, having previously considered therapy a largely American pursuit. By the time I reached that landmark age, without children and in a marriage that was beginning to lose its fairytale glow, my daily life was beginning to feel not unlike a soap opera.And for 12 long, frequently torturous months we painstakingly made it liveable and lovable. I had a husband, a home, yet I was missing something, intangible but palpable. I still loved my husband, but I wanted adventure, excitement, a reminder I was still alive. I began chatting to men online in private chat forums, concealing any obvious indentifiers of who I was but talking about my life, problems and thoughts.
And I did, pretty much, and I was perfectly fine - until suddenly I wasn't.
There were redundancy problems at work; my marriage was showing strains; and there was something large and unnameable missing from my life.
My husband worked hard at his job and, to alleviate its accompanying pressures, developed his obsession with horseracing, gambling and drinking. These conversations quickly developed into cyber-sex, each message becoming more adventurous and racy and allowing me to live out fantasies I would never contemplate doing in the real world. My husband and I became strangers, our lives by now distinct entities. I told myself that what I was doing was essentially harmless.
When the time was right for both of us, we would work through our problems and come back to one another. I shed my regulars and concentrated on just one, a man younger than me by almost two decades.
2) No harassing other users Harassing other users in any way or form including harassment of users based on race, religion or sexuality is strictly prohibited.
We try to keep an amicable and congenial environment here. 3) No flooding or spamming Interrupting the flow of the chat sessions with the use of large fonts, repetitive typing, chat clearing, the advertising of other websites or any other activity that makes it difficult for chatters to maintain a conversation is strictly prohibited.
Our goal is to create a fun and exciting environment, Tamil Chat Room for a general audience which also means a place where we don’t tolerate behavior that is harmful to others – especially minors.
Our rules are pretty basic and are designed to support the creation of an inviting environment to meet new people and participate in vibrant discussions. You are entirely responsible and liable for all activities conducted when you communicate with other Members and Users in Retamil Chat.
Retamil Chat supports the principles of free speech.
However we also recognize the importance for people to respect the rights of others.
We had agreed, early on in our relationship, that we wouldn't have children. Several friends, however, were convinced that our lack of children created a vacuum.