You might find yourself following along with your partner’s imagination, or you might be taking the reins yourself.
Now that Valentine’s Day is officially over and you finished spoiling your girl with a fancy dinner, expensive gifts, and the best D you could muster after a long day of work and multiple glasses of the most expensive wine you could afford, you’re looking to make some time for the other woman (or women) in your life. We don't condone stepping out on your lady, but we're not here to judge. So, how does one go about keeping their scandalous ways a secret from their better half?
The only problem is your girl is like a new age Jessica Fletcher and checks your Twitter mentions, your Facebok activity, your Instagram likes, and, most importantly, keeps tabs your phone activity.
Think of as many different scenarios as you can: the library, the back of your car, Paris, in an airplane, at a Costco, etc.
As for roleplay scenarios, Lauren suggests: cop, sexy nurse.
Be sure you trust your partner and that he/she won’t weaponize them against you later.
Lauren says if you can’t answer quickly and strongly YES to the question, “do I trust my partner? Safe, sane, and consensual is the motto to keep in mind.Treating phone sex as sexy little appetizing pieces can help take some of the pressure off.It’s perfectly acceptable to tell your partner these are your fantasies for phone sex only, and not fantasies for reality.Let’s say, you really love the fantasy of public sex, but you know, don’t have any actual plans to follow through on that.Phone sex is a great and safe place to talk about the things you wouldn’t or couldn’t do in real life.Maybe you hate the outdoors and would never in a million years be caught doing watersports.