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If you are not a naturally outgoing person, meeting new people can be hard.
That's where dating online can help you--with a protective computer screen between you and the girl you're chatting to, it's much easier to open up without feeling nervous the way you might in person.
That way, if you are dating someone who says they are serious, but you catch them viewing profiles, or sending emails, then you have enough proof to cut them loose. In the end, she found out that he was dating 5 women at the same time, and that he only said he would marry her because he wanted to keep her ‘on the line’ in case the main woman he was actively chasing left and he had to settle for her. As long as you are prepared to arrive at a date and see a different person, often about 10 years older than their picture, or be stood up, then you will be able to protect yourself emotionally. Do not let the ‘love’ chemicals cause you to rush into a bad relationship.
One woman tells a story of a man who talked marriage at Christmas. She ‘lurked’ and watched him checking out profiles and sending IMs. Suzanne James has 10 years experience as an online life coach, using the telephone to facilitate her coaching strategy.
If your date pressures you to go somewhere more secluded than you're comfortable with, cut the night short.
Don't put yourself in danger just to be polite.
Plus, if she does not return your interest, there's no need for a face-to-face confrontation about it; you can just say "Thanks anyway" and log off.
You might find a great match online, someone who really enjoys your company, and who you love talking to. It can be a real pain to determine whether or not a long-distance relationship is worth the hassle when you haven't even met the guy or girl in person before.
Before reading this article you may like to quickly glance through This entry was posted on Saturday, September 22nd, 2007 at pm and is filed under Dating Tips and Advice, Free Online Dating.