He didn’t just make you happy, he probably awed you with his awesomeness. Is it a case of fading infatuation, or are you just dating a guy who’s completely wrong for you?
And most importantly, he was always proactive and fun. Well, those were the last words you could think of to define him.
] 5 things you can do to make him less lazy #1 Communicate gently.
And if that’s one of the things that are affecting your relationship negatively, you have every right to want to fix it. [Read: 10 biggest relationship problems and ways to fix it] After all, all of us are different and every individual has his or her own expectations from love.
And if a boyfriend who’s active and fun is what you want, then hey, you go girl! This is something you need to give a serious thought about. Has he stopped taking you out for dinners as often as he once would, has he stopped surprising you with little gestures of love, or has he just turned into a slob who thinks rolling over on a couch defines exercise?
Is he like the boring boyfriend who has suddenly stopped pleasing you or showing interest in you, or is he like the lazy husband who doesn’t do chores around the house?
A lazy husband is a completely different story because we’d have to talk more about household chores, taking care of kids, and a whole load of other things that are on the side of being lazy and defeated. Do you criticize him often even when he tries to do as you suggest?
You’ve tried to help him, but no matter what you do, he’s just really lazy and unmotivated. If he’s suffering from low self esteem and craves to make a good impression on everyone he meets, you definitely need to help him see the miserable person he’s turning into.
He’s just weighing the planet down, and he has no interest in planning ahead or worrying about the future. [Read: 20 signs of a people pleaser you probably don’t know!
So should you just clam up and swallow your annoyance each time you see him sleeping on the couch, or cancelling another date night to play games, while you’re trying to do something with him?
Well, if you’re not happy with his behavior, of course, you’re entitled to get angry with him.
No matter how many women write in to say, ‘I don’t do this!
’ the fact is many, many, many women practice the behavior that follows.
[Read: 12 most common reasons why couples drift apart and find each other boring!