If you want something, be specific and avoid causing yourself unnecessary stress.We're usually pretty open to new ideas." —Adrian B."Please don't critique or be too harsh about someone's sexual performance the first time you hook up with him.If it doesn't happen in the beginning, he'll think it'll never happen." —Tyler L."It can take the edge off to meet with a group of friends.
I don't want to pick up a saved video game: I'm here to start new." —Orlando O."I always appreciate the offer to split the check, even though I never allow it.
If we end up grabbing drinks later and a woman insists on paying, I really like that a lot.
All she needs to do to maintain my interest is…be awesome. It's hard to get the sense that I'm getting to know someone when I'm tasked with doing all the talking.
On the flip side though, it's a rough night when a girl goes on about herself at length without asking me anything about myself.
But that doesn't stop women everywhere from claiming that's what they really want in a man. As often seems to be the case, the true answer is a disarmingly simple one.
"Nice" behavior by a man in and of itself is not what differentiates "keepers" from the "rejects" in the minds of women.
If you're flowing with it and cool, we've got a winner.
If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.
That way you can get a feel for what he's normally like around his buddies and it'll let you both relax a bit more.