He is currently on a trip for spring break and has phoned me a few times. Should I wait for him to initiate that conversation?Additionally, he asks questions in a very indirect manner. Chinese people are crazy about having balance in their life, health being one of those things.
You better be in school for (or already in) accounting, marketing, finance, medicine, or law. Whether it's Cantonese, Mandarin or some other Chinese dialect, you might have to start taking some lessons or asking your girl for some basic phrases. Your girl most likely went to UBC or SFU or studied abroad, and chances are she did very well.
And if not, hopefully they'll slowly warm up to you. Not that they can't speak English, but Chinese parents almost always want to be able to talk to their potential in-laws in their mother Korean, Japanese or TVB dramas, taking your shoes off and wearing slippers in the house - the Chinese do a lot of things differently than other cultures and vice versa. And now she's probably killing it in life, making moves to further herself in her work.
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For example, instead of asking if he can walk walk with me to the library, he asks where I am going next…
I think it is a combination of his culture combined with being male haha.
He is also very introverted and independent, kind of a homebody. I don’t want to be too forward by asking him direct questions or disclose too much information that may turn him off.
My instincts are telling me to find the balance between expressing interest and letting things happen naturally. Your experiences remind me so much of courtships in the past with Chinese men.
I don't even know where or how this stereotype started. Yes, we can be very kind and very sweet, but don't be shocked all of a sudden when we have an opinion about something and do something about it.