For Germans there is a way of life and people pretty much know what to expect.
If you are an American woman who has set her sights on a German man then there are a few things you will need to know.
Try this instead: Tell him you like the way that shirt looks on him, how cool his sneakers are, or—if he cooked you dinner—compliment his skills in the kitchen.
If you enjoyed meeting him, or hanging out, say that too. Facebook flirting In today’s day and age, Facebook has become a legit way to meet people.
If you get the urge, step up your game and act your age. Complimenting him a gazillion times Compliments are like alcohol: Fine in moderation but disastrous in excess.
Try this instead: Highlight some recent personal or professional achievements you’re proud of. You can certainly say a few nice things but you don’t need to tell him how hot he is 400 times, or how he is on the second date.
But if you’re speaking to a man and you laugh at everything he says, you’ll confuse him and come off looking a little ditzy—or nuts.
Try this instead: Smile often (nobody likes a sullen date) and laugh when you be laughing. Trying to make him jealous One terrible way to flirt with someone is to try to make them jealous by mentioning ex-boyfriends, your dating history, or a list of guys that want to date you.
xooxox”) Sending these types of texts could cause guys to view you as a typical “girl” instead of thinking you’re slyly flirting with them.
Try this instead: Don’t text a guy goodnight until you’ve been on two solid dates and know you’re going out again.
Also, you may need to realize that unlike Americans, Germans do not generally like small talk.